
just to keep it real with you stop now so you can look a girl (or guy) in the face and tell them you had a problem once but now you’re stronger and better and ready for a real relationship. you want to be able to lay your guts out on the table to someone with confidence you’ve become the best version of yourself. a real one is going to understand it’s a part of your past and be able to accept you for who you are now. you don’t want to be in a relationship where you have to hide your true self.
“I’m addicted to spending money on this thing” and your answer is why are you spending money? It’s an addiction. You try something one time and you’re hooked, that’s all it takes. Someone near you to talk something up well enough you try it- that’s all it takes. Ever watched a movie someone recommended? People can recommend a lot more than movies.