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The first girl who’s ever been interested in me asked me to send nudes and I told her I was nervous and she ghosted me and I’m worried I ruined the only potential romantic relationship I’ll ever have with
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Anonymous 1w

If she ghosts you for something as small and immature as that then I’m sorry bud but she wasn’t worth your time.

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Anonymous 1w

She wasn’t worth it my guy dw you dodged a bullet

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Anonymous 1w

people come and go you will eventually meet someone who honors your boundaries and doesn’t try to push you past them she just wasn’t the one there will be other chances

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Anonymous 1w

thats a female not any better than a man.

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Anonymous 1w

Your feelings are valid, but you dodged a huge bullet. You’ll find someone else and be like “omg what was I thinking? My new girl is genuine and respectful” as a woman trust me

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Anonymous 1w

Fuck that bitch then

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Anonymous 1w

Hey man genuinely the fact that she asked for nudes and the ghosted you means she actually didn’t take any interest in you at all, you were a game she was trying to play and you won. Please don’t feel like you lost someone who actually wanted you. Because she didn’t. There will be someone who will and just be yourself till then because some woman out here only here for themselves

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Anonymous 1w

That’s not a romantic relationship. And that’s abnormal behavior for a girl; it’s honestly a sign of hyper sexualization. IF you would’ve formed a relationship with her it would’ve been very one sided. You dodged a massive bullet brother.

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Anonymous 1w

Are you sure it wasn’t a sextortion scam, sorry to kill your confidence.

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Anonymous 1w

please keep meeting girls and talking to them. it takes practice but just keep working on your game and always be respectful and kind to them

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Anonymous 1w

How old are you?

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Anonymous 1w

Hey man, like you said, she’s just the first who’s been interested. You’ll have more to come, you’re young (from what I’ve read) and you have a long time ahead of you. As you grow older, you’ll understand that nothing about this should make you feel bad. She had bad intentions and you’re not wrong for rejecting:)

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Anonymous 1w

That feeling like we are doomed to never have another chance with someone… I promise it passes and more people and more experiences are on the way. AND more respectful ones than whatever this was.

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Anonymous 1w

If she ghosted you after you said no to nudes, she was interested in your body, not you. Nudes are absolutely disgusting imo. If you’re gonna see it, you’ll see it in person. I’m not sending pictures

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

no loss there sis. theres better out there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It just feels bad yk? Idk when I’m gonna get another chance or if someone will like me again

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

I don’t think so i met her irl

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Almost 20

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You’re still young. You have plenty of time to find someone babe.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Can I dm you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Sure.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I agree with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

Thank you I hope so

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 1w

I hope so

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1w

Thank you I’ll try to wait for the right person

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

Thank you I hope more will like me in the future

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1w

Thank you it hurts a little less today

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 1w

I’m not exactly attractive and I don’t have a nice body idk why she would be interested in that

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1w

I’ll work on it and try it get out more thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

The things you hate about yourself are things someone will soon love. Don’t put yourself down. She doesn’t sound like a good person anyways

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