Today I f’ed up on Sidechat | Planned something with my best friend and she canceled 3 hours before. Over the past 12 years she has canceled 3/4 out of the times we make plans. I’ve been so mad at her that this time I finally said something. She canceled from a tummy ache.

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Today I f’ed up 8w

Planned something with my best friend and she canceled 3 hours before. Over the past 12 years she has canceled 3/4 out of the times we make plans. I’ve been so mad at her that this time I finally said something. She canceled from a tummy ache.

Anonymous 8w

It came back she’s miscarrying and I angrily spoke to her and now I feel bad. I feel horrible

Anonymous 7w

This time was valid but also why couldn’t she just be honest and say that she was srsly sick? You’re prolly only resentful because half the time you don’t know the whole reason for why she flakes sm. I have a friend like that and sometimes you just gotta wait until they make the plans because they don’t know how to manage their schedule for the life of them.

Anonymous

OP 8w

Oh my goodness OP! I’m so sorry! Please don’t feel bad! You had no idea! I completely understand your frustration- especially when you have gone that long without seeing a friend you desperately want to see (long distance friendships unite). It was right to say something, you had no idea the circumstances were that dire, and since you feel guilt now thats a sort of proof to yourself that if you had known that you would of approached the situation differently.

Anonymous

OP 8w

Are you sure she isn't just committing to a lie because she does this almost every time

Anonymous

#2 8w

I am sure, I have her location and she’s been at the hospital the past two days :/

Anonymous

OP 8w

When I call I can hear the hospital in the back and her husband. It’s been bad and she sounds in pain