aqua_nazar_amulet92 on Sidechat | After a year long situationship, I asked why he was so distant. He said “I haven’t liked you in two months but I stay because you treat me really well” we stopped talking ofc. How do I heal from this

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aqua_nazar_amulet92

After a year long situationship, I asked why he was so distant. He said “I haven’t liked you in two months but I stay because you treat me really well” we stopped talking ofc. How do I heal from this

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Anonymous 19w

loosing interest is unfortunately a risk with relationships, especially if they were immature going into a relationship. i don't know if this is a situation where you wanted to date and they didn't, but don't do this to yourself again. it took me over a year to heal from my 6 month situationship. it's not just the memories you have, it's all the things you wanted to do with them. let yourself grieve what happened and didn't happen

Anonymous 18w

“Year long situationship” 🥀

Anonymous 19w

Stop having “sitatuonships” and focus on yourself. Wait for the right person and don’t let your libido and carnal desires control your life. Get some real hobbies and exercise, read more, and spend time in nature.

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Anonymous 19w

I had the impression we were going to make it official “soon” there were personal reasons we couldn’t date at first (I don’t put all the blame on him for this) but they eventually cleared up and I kept thinking (and sometimes asking) now what? And there was always an excuse. I known better I should of left forever ago, he was just so good at making the situation sound better than what it truly was

Anonymous 19w

just remember partner not project. you shouldn’t be fixing them

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Anonymous

#4 19w

Lesson was learned, definitely didn’t plan to do that again