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Just learned my ex bought a ring… and was gonna propose a month after we broke up:/ not sure how to feel about
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Anonymous 10h

Any chance it’s a lie? Either way he waited too long to propose to a gem like you and nobody else would make that mistake! I’m glad you are free

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Anonymous 11h

That’s brutal but depends on y u guys broke up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

It was 12 years no ring.. so I didn’t feel like it was going to come. So we parted ways

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Damn 12 years is a while. Idk all the details but if he did actually wanna propose he would’ve, during or before the breakup process. Idk who would throw away 12 years of a relationship just to avoid proposing a month earlier.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

Right, and I’ve always told him it’s been too long and that if he was serious about us it’s about time. But now I’m feeling really guilty

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

It might be, I had that thought too. Awww but thank you boo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

don’t girl he’s prob lying to make u feel bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

Don’t feel guilty like the other person said he’s probably just doing that to mess with you. If he was really gonna propose he would’ve said so during the break up process to not lose you. It doesn’t even matter how u found out, if he was serious and he knew that the obvious tension in the relationship was the proposal he would’ve done it. It makes no sense a month later to be like “I was gonna propose to you btw” that’s bs.

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