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Today I f’ed up 16h
Is it SA if ur almost blackout drunk and you try to give ur (at the time) bff hickeys? This was mnths ago and they said we were chill but we ain’t friends anymore and they’re telling everyone it was SA now but I don’t even remember doing it bc drunk af
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Anonymous 15h

Really depends on if they were ok with it. Also cmon just don’t get drunk and do that shit. Of course, if it wasn’t chill they should have said as much, and to you, instead of airing it out. The problem is that if you don’t remember it very well could have been SA

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Anonymous 6h

I believe you that you don’t remember doing it, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that your former friend was obviously very affected by the whole thing. Their feelings are valid, trying to convince them it wasn’t a big deal or wasn’t SA will only hurt your chances of ever having any kind of friendship with them in the future. For now, just give them space.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2h

I’m not trying to convince them it was no big deal I also don’t WANT to be their friend anymore. We had a big falling out after their bf broke up with them (we were a trio friendgroup) and they’re only telling ppl this now. I’m really just upset that they waited to tell me this until AGTER the friendship was over it feels like they don’t actually feel this way and just want to hurt me (I’ve been SAd in the past and they’ve been saying “cycle of abuse”) bc we were completely cool before this

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2h

I asked them once I sobered up if I did anything that upset them and they told me that it happened but they were ok with it in the moment and just no longer wanted it to happen. I agreed to never to it again and asked if we were cool, they said yes. It’s now been about a mnth&1/2 and they’re seemingly only talking abt it now bc our friendship ended on bad terms when I took their ex’s side in a breakup

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