Hope you guys can both move on from this ok. Maybe you two can be friends going forward, but if he doesn’t want that and wants limited or no contact, please respect that and his boundaries. Can’t imagine being in either of your positions but especially his. :(

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as sad as it is, sometimes you gotta put yourself first. you did the right thing. staying with him would have only hurt the both of you further

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Better that than continuing a relationship that was doomed and getting more of his hopes up, I know it hurts and you may be besting yourself up over it, but hopefully someday you will come to find clarity and peace in that decision.

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I think the most important thing is to not blame yourself, its difficult but at the end of the day you don’t wanna push yourself to maintain a relationship that you’re not happy in. As far as he goes (speaking as a guy), as long as he doesn’t slip into really bad habits (excessively drinking/smoking, etc), im sure he’ll be okay. Take care of yourself

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i did this bc i realized i wasn’t into men. i never told him that bc i didn’t want him to think he turned me lesbian or anything. it hurt a lot bc i wish we could have stayed friends but i also realize that he was never going to be able to see me as just a friend. it would have been cruel to both of us to continue being in a relationship. just give him space if he needs it. it’s not wrong of you to end the relationship but you have to make sure you’re not giving him mixed signals after.

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basically same thing with me😕

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It is in fact possible to die from a broken heart btw

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how long were you guys together?

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it be like that

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this was my situation a week ago!! it’s more important to put yourself first than continue a relationship that doesn’t mean anything to you.

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tricky?

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Is ok. You gotta do what you gotta do

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Chat I miss him desperately

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