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Tinder fails 45w
This guy just dmed me after matching w me asking why I didn’t message first, told him it’s bc I used to always text first but then get barely any responses so it became a waste of my energy and bro wrote a whole essay about how he thought I was lazy 💀🥀
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Anonymous 45w

Also right after he wrote it, he unmatched w me 🥀🥀🥀

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Anonymous 45w

In my experience, not a single girl messaged first. 😔

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