
I don’t agree with gaylors however I don’t think that it excuses the homophobic things people say to them. I feel like a lot of the time swifties will use gaylors as an excuse to be super homophobic. I also feel like the fandom not having a distinct definition of gaylor causes this problem. Bc I have been called a gaylor for viewing Taylors music through my own life experiences (apparently relating her songs to my life is over sexualizing her)
I don’t think yall realize how many swifties it really is. At the eras tour I made a rainbow friendship bracelets that had the letters to spell out shade never made anybody less gay. And I had more than one fan irl tell me that it was disgusting that I was forcing my sexuality on Taylor and that Taylor doesn’t want dirty f@gs at her shows and that I’m a predator
Like you don’t understand what it is like when everyone was calling the eras tour the most accepting and safe place for women, when that space wasn’t safe for you. Did anyone say anything to the fan who called me a f@g, nope, in fact I saw people trade bracelets with her right after it happened