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General 2w

Can someone tell me if i’m the only one who hates it when people help me ? Especially when I didn’t ask…. I feel I may be damaged.

Anonymous 2w

Same cause then it always comes with strings attached and a quiet resentment for not having the capacity,time or mental bandwidth to return the favor/help

Anonymous 2w

Portion of the time “help” is based on the idea of the giver receiving a sense of superiority, control, or clear conscious of well doing. Not all the time, but possible… I suppose if you trust the person/people it could be well intended. Yet, if doubtful of intention, ask “Why do you feel the need to help?” A phrase I love currently is “who commissioned you?”