
okay wait so i’m also dating my coworker and i feel you exactlyyy😭 he started with asking for my socials when we were having a related conversation, and one day he finally slide up on my story when i went to the movies. as long as you’re not weird or pushy about it, it should be okay! downside is it may be awkward for a bit if she says no😭
oh waittt, that might work a bit nicer in your favor tho. i like what #2 said but i can see how’d you’d need to work up to it. maybe compliment something specific on her, or ask her a general question about “hey for any fun plans for the weekend?” or just a simple “wow this weather is really xyz” and so on! build off of those small interactions until you’re able to ask her for coffee !