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Chat how do i approach very attractive women who i think might like me (and yes I know one answer is “like you’d approach anyone” but i haven’t asked someone out in 6 years 😋)
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Anonymous 24w

Hey, I have a lot of fun talking with you. Wanna grab coffee sometime?

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Anonymous 24w

where do you see her at? like the grocery store, gym, school, work, etc

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 24w

work 😭 which makes me feel bad and not want to do anything because of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 24w

i’d need to have shared more than two conversations in passing , or like get some balls and have a conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

okay wait so i’m also dating my coworker and i feel you exactlyyy😭 he started with asking for my socials when we were having a related conversation, and one day he finally slide up on my story when i went to the movies. as long as you’re not weird or pushy about it, it should be okay! downside is it may be awkward for a bit if she says no😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 24w

the problem is we’re technically not co workers, like we work at the same place but it’s one big location with a ton of different programs

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

oh waittt, that might work a bit nicer in your favor tho. i like what #2 said but i can see how’d you’d need to work up to it. maybe compliment something specific on her, or ask her a general question about “hey for any fun plans for the weekend?” or just a simple “wow this weather is really xyz” and so on! build off of those small interactions until you’re able to ask her for coffee !

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 24w

If conversations are hard I’m a big fan of happy thumbs up and impressed finger guns personally. Make her remember you

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