Anonymous #1 4w

Break up

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Anonymous #2 4w

Very true, a good way to live for sure. I’ve been trying to but feel like I keep falling into the same anxious loop

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Anonymous OP 4w

Yea ik it’s hard. My situation was different because I wasn’t actually dating her, I was basically just in the friend zone and thought she might be interested and it was complicated but what happened was she said she needed space and that she didn’t know how much so I was just like, in the mean time I’m going to do as much as I can so when she does talk to me again I’ll feel more confident and stuff. I waited for like a year and kinda realized she never was going to.

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Anonymous #2 4w

I ended up reaching out to her to try and at least be friends (which I’m glad didn’t work out because i wouldve just been leading myself on) and we talked for a bit and it felt like old times but then she ghosted me and I just realized I had to accept it. Sorry I didn’t mean to make this about me but I’ve never talked about this to anyone so I kinda just wanted to get it out lol. And like now I just feel grateful for the friendship we did have even though it’s gone yk.

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Anonymous #2 4w

And Ik none of this probably helps but it does get better you just have to try to feed it less of your energy

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Anonymous #2 4w

You’re good, it’s good to talk about it. That usually helps me feel a little better. I’m glad I’m not the only one that has this kind of issue, makes me hopeful that I can get over it soon

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Anonymous OP 4w

You will. I think some people think getting over someone means forgetting them but I think it just means you eventually get a different point of view, at least that’s how it’s always been for me. Good luck brutha rooting for ya

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