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any tips for having sex for the first time? Ive never put anything inside of me before and im kinda nervous

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Anonymous 12w

warm up first! idk what kinda hole you got but please lubricate regardless!

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Anonymous 12w

Just take things slowly and make sure all parties respect each others boundaries.

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Anonymous 12w

Havent either but have had pelvic exams. If its the first time having something in there its gonna hurt and might bleed if female. Dont push your body past its limit, prep accordingly

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Anonymous

#1 12w

Seconded please use lube

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Anonymous

#3 12w

bleeding is not normal and is a sign of tearing which is an injury. I think whoever did your exam was bad at their job

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Anonymous

#1 12w

Thats probably true. It was impromptu and done with a way too big speculum. That + having vaginismus was a very bad combo. Luckily my current gynecologist sedates me, makes it way easier

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