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General 27w
trying to find love in a lustful world as an asexual is terrible #donotrecommend
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Anonymous 27w

OP don’t mind the casual acephobia on here. I’m sure you know as well as I do that finding other ace people in person is no easy task. I am confident that you will find someone, whether they be ace or all, who loves and appreciates you for exactly how you are!!

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Anonymous 27w

I mean just find another asexual you're probably not gonna have a successful relationship with a normal person most people value sex in their relationships. But I'd imagine there's plenty of people who would love you that already lead your particular lifestyle.

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Anonymous 27w

Real

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Anonymous 27w

And I am saying this as someone who is in a successful long-term relationship with a “normal” (lol, meaning allosexual of course) person

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 27w

As someone who is not asexual and in a long term committed relationship with someone who is on the asexual spectrum I second this. There are waves of frustration and wistful dejection where I will often distance myself from my partner as to not hurt them with my longing for something they cannot give me. I am in a position where I have chosen to give up something I desperately crave in order to have the life partner I love. I believe you should be leading with finding other asexuals.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 27w

If you’re relationship is really that miserable for you, maybe work on it or end things instead of coming on here and blaming an entire demographic for your own choices

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 27w

I mean, unless someone put a gun to your head and forced you to enter a relationship with an asexual person

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