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General 1w
trying to find love in a lustful world as an asexual is terrible #donotrecommend
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Anonymous 1w

OP don’t mind the casual acephobia on here. I’m sure you know as well as I do that finding other ace people in person is no easy task. I am confident that you will find someone, whether they be ace or all, who loves and appreciates you for exactly how you are!!

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Anonymous 1w

I mean just find another asexual you're probably not gonna have a successful relationship with a normal person most people value sex in their relationships. But I'd imagine there's plenty of people who would love you that already lead your particular lifestyle.

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Anonymous 1w

Real

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Anonymous 1w

And I am saying this as someone who is in a successful long-term relationship with a “normal” (lol, meaning allosexual of course) person

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

As someone who is not asexual and in a long term committed relationship with someone who is on the asexual spectrum I second this. There are waves of frustration and wistful dejection where I will often distance myself from my partner as to not hurt them with my longing for something they cannot give me. I am in a position where I have chosen to give up something I desperately crave in order to have the life partner I love. I believe you should be leading with finding other asexuals.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

If you’re relationship is really that miserable for you, maybe work on it or end things instead of coming on here and blaming an entire demographic for your own choices

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I mean, unless someone put a gun to your head and forced you to enter a relationship with an asexual person

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