
Some people want to have casual sex though. A lot of men want to, but it’s not as easy for them to find women who want to fuck them, so they take out their insecurities on women by shaming them for enjoying what men usually can’t. If women having sex makes them objects, why aren’t you this upset about the MEN who have sex with them? Aren’t the men objectifying themselves and using women?
That is what I’m looking for though. Someone who has already had sex before isn’t suddenly incapable of providing love and care for other people. If I meet a perfect match for me, I’m not going to care about how many people they fucked around with in college or whatever, unless it resulted in an STD, which can be easily tested for.
Yeah they are. But this discussion was about women. You can easily apply what I say to men without issue because it works both ways. Sex doesn’t deserve names. It’s smashing genitalia together and it gives pleasure. There are much higher things than that. If casual sex is your want, you’re missing out on something fulfilling. What fills the body does not fill the heart.
Not everyone wants a relationship. Some people just want to have casual sex and feel good and that’s completely ok as long as they’re being safe about it. If we tell people they shouldn’t be allowed to do harmless things they enjoy just because “there are more important things” (which like I said, some people don’t want “love”), then nobody will be doing anything in their lives at all besides eating drinking and sleeping.
I’m not forcing anything. It’s a life principle I think should be followed. Forcing is me making it law or punishable. If you don’t care about dissenting input then why are you here for support when you can get that from people who agree with you? You know exactly what I mean, no reason to get pedantic.
You turned a conversation that has nothing to do with you, to be COMPLETELY about you, whilst also being misogynistic and then arguing with people for saying something that is inherently offensive. The sex we have is nobody’s business, and to judge the character of someone or to turn away love because of a private act? Absolutely ridiculous.