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Is it weird that I feel oddly disconnected from my bf if the topic of babies came up and he immediately talks about abortion. I don’t want one yet but definitely am obsessing over the youngest of my siblings that is nearly two months old. He seems-
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Anonymous 4w

he doesn’t have to want kids, or to think your brother is as cute as you do. but if that’s something that’s a dealbreaker for you then you should know that about yourself and realize that you might want different things in life

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Anonymous 4w

Got to find guy who wants babies

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Anonymous 4w

I can never get an exact answer from him. I’ve asked if he wants them and his answer is always I don’t know. For context I am 22 and he is 29. He says he is ready to start a life but I want to finish school first. I’m a senior and want to do grad school. Depending on the program it’s like another year and a half to three years. The issue is that anytime I’ve brought up babies his immediate response is to joke about having it aborted. That really isn’t an option. I go to school in Alabama and-

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Anonymous 4w

Completely disinterested when I’ve shown him the baby on FaceTime and we didn’t talk at all this weekend because he hung up as soon as he started fussing even for a second

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

He adores my 3 year old sister but didn’t until she could actually interact with him. I’m not even sure if he wants them. I know I absolutely do and he talks about how they would be. I didn’t want them until my youngest siblings. I had all sisters until the youngest. He’s a boy and I am just as obsessed. He smiles now and does interact with little coos

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Awww the baby boy. But yea got to have the talk at some point

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

He genuinely is such a beautiful baby. All he wants is to be held and really only cries if he needs to be held or fed. The kind of baby that makes parents want another

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Have lived here my entire life. It is illegal here. He lives in a northern state and thinks I can just fly up there and do it discreetly. I don’t think it is something I could live with. It’s like he is not even for a second considering what I would want, just himself

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Seconded. It’s not a failing, but it might not fit with your life, and that’s okay. You might want to consider and move on

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Nvm, read all of it and idk if you’ll be happy in the long run with him

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