Anonymous #1 2w

I don’t think he will. He has said he prefers if I do all the shopping. Refused to even go to the store for a pickup. We are long distance and the last time I visited, I didn’t have a car and could not get him to go the store for anything. He eventually told me after that if I gave him head when I asked to go he would have said yes. The last time he went clothes shopping with me I asked him his opinion and he just kept asking if I was done yet. I held up a set I thought was cute. All he asked-

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Anonymous OP 2w

Was if I was sure it would fit. There were people around that heard. I saw the look of pity. I felt good about myself before that. I was so embarrassed. Later on ai did cry because the whole thing made me feel so awful. Windsor and I’m both tall and have a lot of ass. Admittedly some things they just don’t have my size in. I didn’t need a reminder. He went to a bench out side and proceeded to huff and puff.

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Anonymous #3 2w

Also I find him asking for head in return to be incredibly insulting. I mean if he wanted to go on a hike or something and you didn’t, would you ever demand the same? I’m betting not. It’s just unfair and turns something that could be a shared experience into a business transaction. He sucks fat ass, he doesn’t deserve you

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Anonymous OP 1w

I should also mention that he insisted I ordered groceries instead. So I did, twice. At this point I’m the only one who travels. I work remotely and he always asks if I can take time off or switch my schedule so it is days instead of mostly overnight weekend shifts. He at one point said things would be easier when I learned his preferences

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Anonymous #4 1w

Tons of times. I can’t get him to even help me with looking at groceries to shop for on my phone.

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Anonymous #3 1w

I can’t help but feel grimy when he says that. There is no amount of explaining I can do to get him to understand

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Anonymous OP 1w

DUMP HIM!!!! You’ll be sad for a bit. And then you’ll be free

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Anonymous OP 1w

Holy shit i hate this guy what the hell?? Break up immediately, he’s a child. How the fuck does he even take care of himself if shopping is too much for him

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Anonymous #5 1w

He mostly eats out. It’s a lot more than I want to spend on food. I prefer cooking myself. It’s healthier and more cost effective for the most part. He can cook and bake well, just despises going shopping. I enjoy it. I don’t mind being the one who plans out and mostly shops. It’s just that I know he won’t at all. We had a convo about how for Christmas I would be doing all the shopping then too if there were kids. He wants me to move in. I can’t help but think it will mostly benefit him

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Anonymous OP 1w

You are literally writing paragraphs and paragraphs about how shitty he is, it sounds like you know he’s not compatible with you and that you have a bad feeling about a future with him. Seriously don’t ignore that feeling

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Anonymous #5 1w

I know I shouldn’t but whenever I bring it up I always feel like I’m overreacting. I’ve talked about things with my cousin I’m close with and even my sister before. It’s not good. He doesn’t like when I do because according to him I only focus on the negative and leave out context. I know that I’m not happy with how things are. He promises it will be better when I see him next or that he can actually show me in person. There is one thing that happened in August. In my mind it was bad

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Anonymous OP 1w

He doesn’t see it that way. He understands that it upset me but I don’t think why. It’s so subtle. I love him but I’m not sure if I can ever be fully happy with him. I feel like I’m going to be another one of those women who have all the burden on them. Yeah he is on board with me getting a boob job and he wants to build a future together. If I really wanted to I could have a kid in like three years. I want the family and stability and someone who is willing to experience things with me

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