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Update. She broke up with me today. Said “she needed space.” 4 years. Im fucking hurt.
Life 360 quit working and been on delivered for 4 hours. Chat surely her phone died.
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Anonymous 5w

That has to cut. I’m so sorry bro. From your other comments you seem like a really solid person. I hope you both have happy futures, even if not together. You’ll survive, I promise. It’ll suck but you will, and someday you’ll wake up and realize that it hasn’t hurt in a while. Good luck 🫂

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Anonymous 5w

i’m so damn sorry

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Anonymous 5w

Im sorry man. That sucks. Youre better than her, youll find someone worth your time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Im not better than her. She’s an amazing women regardless of our relationship. I hope i find someone who wont leave me. Im lucky to have friends who dont. But i want someone special yk. I hate that i cant hate her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Yea. She said she went to her friends to talk about breaking up with me essentially. So either way i was doomed ig. And i still dont understand why. I try to. I try to understand her reasoning because she tried to explain but it made no sense. She just. Fell out of love i think. Its how i interpreted her words tho she claimed its not that. Sorry for the yap.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

From the disabled life360 i assumed shed cheated… but if thats not the case then yeah, sometimes people just grow apart. It sucks, im sorry youre going through it, but its not the end of your love life. Just means you and her werent a good fit.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Yea. I dont think she cheated. She’s too good for that. And she’s been cheated on and we both made it clear we hated it. I think we really did just go grow apart despite our efforts. I really did try to keep us going. It sucks. Can say We werent a fit but it felt so fucking real bro. I really thought we were. I thought she was the one.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Shit hurts. But yea i still hope the best for her. In full honesty i felt the drift happening but chose to be in denial. We both did. Because we both wanted it to be there. So im not as hurt as i could be. But 4 years is too long to move on quickly. I dont even want to think about finding other women. I appreciate the words.

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