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so i am dating someone who’s 18f and im 23m. I do love her but am I fucked up for being in the relationship? I’ve had a lot of friends tell me I am and that I can’t have a good relationship with someone that age. idk what to do
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Anonymous 5w

I’m 23 and couldn’t imagine being in a relationship with an 18 yo

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Anonymous 4w

I mean personally I wouldn’t but if it works, fine. I just think there’s gonna be that developmental gap as she leaves HS and pursues life past it while you’ve already been through that. once you get over that hurdle, i don’t think it’s that bad

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Anonymous 5w

If you’re both happy it’s fine. People are weird about age gaps nowadays.

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Anonymous 5w

You should get her pregnant.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

i agree but its interesting to me how whenever this topic comes up, people immediately talk about themselves and how they would never

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