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Your reminder, if it’s not an ENTHUSIASTIC yes it’s a no! Consent matters
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Anonymous 2w

Thank you for reminding people of this. To add, a lot of 🍇ists actually enjoy themselves less when someone is enthusiastic. It’s about power and control to them. It’s really sick. A normal person would be completely turned off if their partner isn’t showing enthusiasm, so if they have to coerce you, and can still enjoy themselves, it’s because they are a predator.

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Anonymous 2w

Can you describe what enthusiastic would be?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

…. Yes I want you etc not a meek yes. Body language that makes advances towards you and facial expressions that are excited and purposefully seductive. If you don’t understand an enthusiastic yes then you’re autistic probably or in denial. And if you ask once and there’s a pause and no reassurance from them then it’s a no

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I suggest you watch videos on what an enthusiastic yes is in the form of consent. There are educational videos go watch

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Ok thank you. Was just curious of an definition

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