General on Sidechat | If you’re a full gown adult, and a child makes advances towards you- you immediately tell their parents, because it’s a sign they’ve been groomed/don’t understand what they’re doing. And yes, this applies to any age younger than 18 (and even 18 at that)

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General 3w

If you’re a full gown adult, and a child makes advances towards you- you immediately tell their parents, because it’s a sign they’ve been groomed/don’t understand what they’re doing. And yes, this applies to any age younger than 18 (and even 18 at that)

Anonymous 3w

My friend had to do this over this past summer. He works out at a gym that apparently does a free summer pass for high schoolers, and some child was constantly looking at him, trying to talk to him, and clearly trying to show off in front of him. He went to the front desk about it, because there were no parents in sight.

Anonymous 3w

I don’t know that you necessarily have to tell the parents, but you should absolutely reject their advances immediately

Anonymous 3w

I’d be careful it could be the parents also. Maybe talk to cps or something?

Anonymous 3w

I feel like it depends honestly. If they think your a teen and they still try with you even though you say no then I would be concerned. I’d understand if they think the other party is a teen but turns out to be someone 18+ but if the continue then it’s weird

Anonymous 3w

what if i just like milfs?

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Anonymous

#1 3w

Honestly- good on your friend. It may feel uncomfortable, but reporting this type of behavior from adolescents is essential so that there’s intervention/they don’t get groomed later on.

Anonymous

OP 3w

Yeah, he talked to me about it a lot and he truly felt disgusting even though he didn’t do anything to encourage it. I felt bad for him :/

Anonymous

#1 3w

Why tf would he feel disgusting that’s dumb asl if you’re not engaging them. U can just say no and ignore the person

Anonymous

#6 3w

Um… because a literal child is hitting on you? Who wouldn’t feel disgusted by that?

Anonymous

OP 3w

That’s like stupid ass logic… it’s not like you’re indulging it, it’s natural for kids to be attracted to adults it’s only disgusting if it’s the opposite way

Anonymous

#6 3w

Oh boy… I feel you need to seek a therapist, because the feelings you’re having are not okay.

Anonymous

OP 3w

Yo are you special? I said it’s disgusting for an adult to like children. It’s perfectly normal and common for children to have crushes or be attracted to adults, you think that’s disgusting? I have a degree in psychology and studied child psychology I actually know what I’m talking about, Im not a TikTok scholar. Maybe do a little research on a topic before being so confident in it.

Anonymous

#6 3w

Same thing has happened to my partner… we were in our friend’s mom’s house picking her up and her 13-14 YO cousin and friends were all obviously staring at him. We didn’t know they were there and he did have his shirt buttoned up at first because we were going to the beach. He covered up very quickly and said he felt gross after that, too. You SHOULD feel some form of disgust, even if you aren’t encouraging it.

Anonymous

#1 3w

Didn’t have his shirt buttoned up*