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My bf has gone on rants bout how awful the Super Bowl halftime show was. Every conversation about just makes me feel more disgusted. Then it was about Renee Good and Alex Pretti. I want to break up. I can’t see myself with someone so full of hatred
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Anonymous 2d

You should

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Anonymous 1d

Ur bf is probably dl racist

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Anonymous 1d

Time to break up then it’s not about the show it’s like about the hatred and passion he has for it

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Anonymous 1d

Look I’ll fully admit I’m pretty left and therefore biased but like… dump his ass girl you ca do better

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Anonymous 1d

i want to feel bad for him but why’d he date a literal to begin with lol

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Anonymous 1d

Talk w him about it. Most guys go in waves politically, but if you have a genuine chat abt it instead of complaining on side chat, you can really diagnose the future of the relationship

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Anonymous 1d

I’ve had the same exact situation and his main point is that it’s American game so it should be sung by an American who speaks English and he knows fully that Puerto Rico is an American territory so I don’t know it’s not clicking his brain, but I’m getting pretty fucking annoyed

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Anonymous 1d

Ya you should def break up with him and let him find a woman who hasn’t been brainwashed

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Anonymous 20h

Don’t listen to these people smh people can disagree and still get along. Don’t fall into their cult view of “if they don’t agree with me I cut them out them out of my life”. There are plenty of married couples who don’t agree politically

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

yeah, definitely break up

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

I should also mention that last week at work someone mentioned how they weren’t sure how a relationship works when two people are different politically. My bf said that we are a I’m from Alabama and he is from up north. They assumed I was the conservative one. He agreed with them so it wouldn’t mess with any future networking. He hides his political beliefs at work. I feel like if that’s how he feels then why is he hiding it. If I ever mentioned some of the things he has said to my dad he would-

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Be disappointed in me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1d

Brainwashed is crazy. Having basic empathy isn’t an insane thing to ask of a partner he lacks it at times

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Having a partner who isn’t so open minded that their brain falls out isn’t an insane thing to ask either.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1d

I rely on substance and factual evidence. It’s not about being open minded. If we’re being technical he is the one that is more forward with the idea of abortion . He did all a chase me one time with a stick telling about where his bushels were. We’re talking about a lack of sensitivity. Someone who does not value the lives of immigrants, gay men, or anyone who is trans. He has outright justified true crime cases where someone was murdered and instances of police brutality.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I see no problem here. One group has no rights as they don’t belong here, one is biologically incorrect and can’t have children, and the others are mentally ill.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1d

Are you brain dead? I said immigrants. Not illegal. Immigrants as in having stance and paperwork for being here. None of that justifies someone being brutalized or killed. They are people. You are part of the problem with this country. Do the world a favor and do not reproduce

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Oh now y’all can suddenly tell the difference between legal and not? We’ve only been explaining it for 15 years now. Glad you finally caught on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

I think the biggest part of it is that it’s America’s 250th, so bad bunny would’ve been great on any other year, but instead this yr it should’ve been someone that pays homage to America itself iykwim

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

I about screamed at my bf about it. I told him Puerto Rico is a part of America and that makes Bad Bunny American. Also the US does not have an official declared language because we are a melting pot of cultures

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

He refused to believe me and looked it up. He still proceeded to say it’s scary that we could have a president from Puerto Rico. I’m biracial. I get asked all the time by both Hispanic and black people if I am Puerto Rican. With that in mind it’s insane he would say that. He has outright said people with my viewpoints are stupid. Somehow according to him I’m not included. The lack of sympathy also extends into hurtful things he has actually done

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 19h

I feel like there’s a certain amount of disagreement that merits breaking off a relationship tho. I’m not saying every or even most relationships, but political disagreements aren’t simply petty differences in opinion all the time, yanno? Like I’m not dating someone who thinks I shouldn’t have rights

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

The issue lies more in when I tell him about times I’ve felt unsafe and have been harassed he rolls his eyes. I don’t see it as just a difference in opinion. I watched a case about a transgender woman who was brutally murdered. They were very upfront about it and it didn’t make a difference. My bf pretty much told me it was justified. For that person to be murdered for being trans. He always has to mention how gay men disgusts him if he sees a gay couple. Not gay women though as he told me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I 100% want a kid or two and I would be disappointed if they spoke about other people with such disdain and lack of empathy

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 10h

i’m a catholic woman who follows catholic social teaching and leans conservatively, it’s ok to not want to be with the type who jumps for joy when someone is shot in the head… no matter the situation. i haven’t seen one person that has defended those 2 cases NOT be condescending/fake. there’s a difference between “i like a capitalist economy but my partner prefers a more socialist type economy” and jumping for joy over 2 life taking situations bc it owned the libs, like you’re too far gone atp

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