This and being a lesbian AND from an immigrant household is so hellish. Like okay to other people im too weird and not american enough. To my family im too american. I cant come out to anyone. To straight women i act too gay. To other gay women (esp white women) i act “too straight” and weird. The hell am i supposed to do man

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it takes practice man, putting yourself in situations outside of your comfort zone can be beneficial to your improvement. also u don’t have to drink to fit in fr just keep being you

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real asf

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As an autistic person, find some autistic people to be friends with. We can ALL relate extremely heavily to a lot of the things you’ve said, and we won’t judge you or make you feel like shit for not conforming perfectly to societal norms and expectations Plus we’re always some of the most loyal friends you’ll ever have

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I feel so heard rn

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Me too

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Just remember that you are a unique and valuable person. Fitting in is a real concern in college but it matters less after. Find your people but realize that people you don’t feel like you have a lot in common with can still get you and like you and even love you. And vice versa.

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Don’t become a weird incel bro.

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