I finally get it now. Most ppls ill actions towards u truly aren’t personal. Like 2% of it is, the rest is really just their own shit going on. That’s why u gotta not take it personal and just be kind.
To be clear tho; if someone in circle continuously hurts u cuz they’re going thru stuff, u gotta let them go. U can understand but also protect urself at the same time. Staying would be self sabotage.