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I knocked over a cup of iced tea unintentionally. I immediately apologized and started to clean it up. It got on his car keys and wallet. I understand being annoyed but he wouldn’t look at or even talk to me for a while after and told me leave the room-
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Anonymous 1w

girl if you dont break up w this guy..

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Anonymous 1w

Break up, immediately.

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Anonymous 1w

Girl you’re dating the manifestation of the evil mother in law condensed into male form get rid of him

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Anonymous 1w

Earlier he was mad that I put the wrong trash bag in the trash can. Then I had knocked the pillows off the couch and didn’t realize they were in the floor. Each time he wouldn’t even talk to or look at me because he was so annoyed. Doesn’t matter what it is or how little it is the same reaction. He never remembers after. It’s like I’m walking on eggshells and there is something he will find fault with and be annoyed by

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Anonymous 1w

You need to break up with this man. You deserve so much better

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Anonymous 1w

Is he your bf??

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Anonymous 1w

There was one thing I did that was deserved. I had a small thing of nail glue and could not get any of the glue out. I squeezed and the whole thing exploded. It got all over my neck, arm, hands, shirt, his pillows, and wall. He has reminded me of it pretty often

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yes, sorry forgot to specify

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah this is weird. Out of all of these, iced tea on wallet and keys is probably the most annoying (not even that bad though) but the other 2 things don’t seem like a big deal at all. And telling YOU to leave the room is really really weird. Like if it’s such a big deal, why can’t he leave the room and go decompress somewhere ? The silent treatment is also childish as fuck. Idk these seem like red flags and i wouldn’t ignore that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Accidents happen, if he’s going to hold every single little innocent mistake over your head then whats even the point of being with someone like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

He has a dog that is a rescue and pees in this one spot in his living room sometimes. Mostly out of spite. I think the pillow on floor part was because he thought they might land near the spot. I work overnights and he very often mentions how much it annoys him that he wakes up when I go to the bathroom because of the light. I asked what he expected of me. He said that I should not turn the light on at all and use my phone flashlight. He later said he just wanted me to wait to turn the-

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Light on after I close the bathroom door. One time I attempted only using my phone light and busted my ass. It woke him up anyways. He just looked at me and was annoyed I woke him up. It hurt like hell and he didn’t bother to check on me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

On top of everything I grew up with two parents who are emotionally volatile. It is very triggering. I have attempted to discuss how it makes me feel and he just doesn’t understand. I feel insane and like I’m being dramatic

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

He has been offhandedly implying that he wants me to move in. I’m in the process of applying for grad school and he wants me to apply to schools near him. I’m not opposed but I can’t move in with this current issue. I’ve started bawling my eyes out and have told him how I feel because it feels like there is always something I have done wrong or that has annoyed him. He even said he is perpetually annoyed with me but still loves me. I don’t understand it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Break up with him and that solves everything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Break up. Do not make your educational decisions based on what a man wants, ever. This dude does not love you. The other night, I accidentally spilled a full cup of vodka and punch onto a nightstand and the carpet, and my partner gently reassured me it was okay and helped me clean up. That is what a partner should do.

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