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bigwheels

so if trying to make someone laugh is flirting, then how tf am i supposed to interact platonically with people??
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Anonymous 15w

Guess I’m flirting with everyone then

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Anonymous 15w

No because I’m such a funny person. It’s impossible to interact with me and not laugh at my jokes.

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Anonymous 15w

U don’t people suck anyway

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Anonymous 15w

Real attempt to answer your question, bigwheels: It’s embarrassing at first when somebody mistakenly accuses you of flirting, but over time the discomfort fades away because a) people who don’t like the way you interact with them don’t hang around as much so the ones left over tend to like you for who you are and b) you start to care less what people think of you and understand that all you can do is your best

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Anonymous 15w

Every time I do something that seems like it might be flirty I immediately go do it to like four other people so they know they aren’t special lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

and if nobody laughs i will laugh at my own joke because i am my own heroine

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

Exactly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

this made me laugh but i found from experimentation that if you want the special boy, making him feel special works better lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

I don’t want him, I just sometimes get used to joke-flirting with friends and do it to other people out of habit

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

that makes sense. btw i didn’t intend to be, like, Aggressively Straight by talking about boys. my example just happened to be about a dude

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

Dw about it, I get you ;)

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