
Bro SAME. Like it popped into my feed and I left a chill comment and got 20 replies saying: “WHY ARE YOU ASSHOLES IN OUR SPACE?!? WE DONT WANT YOU FUCKERS HERE, IT IS OUR SPACE, GET IT THROUGH YOUR THICK SKULL” So I was like “damn it just popped up on my FYP, relax” And they were “YOURE LYING. YOURE TRYING INVADE OUR SPACE. WHY ARE YOU STILL HERE” It was exhausting lmao
Lmao I’m not asking for your pity, and I never said I was offended. I’m just relating with #9 about his experience (stumbling into GirlTalk by accident and being attacked), and told my similar story about how some women there were being complete assholes for no reason. Not trying have a fight here, I’m just trying to say: let’s all be a bit kinder to each other.
“For no reason” speaking volumes here… seems like you still don’t understand. An example, if I ever run across the Black community, or Latino community, I’m not gonna say anything because it’s not for me, it’s a space for people of that identity to be safe and share experiences. It’s the same with Girl Talk. The code of any community centered around that kind of thing is that outsiders should not engage. No one can stop you from reading, but don’t be surprised when people don’t want you posting.
I didn’t say they were annoyed/upset for no reason, I said they were assholes for no reason. There’s a difference. Let’s flip it around for a sec. Let’s say you’re scrolling through your FYP, see a funny/interesting post, and leave a chill comment. You come back a bit later to a bunch of comments saying “WTF are you doing here?! This community is for men you bitch! Can’t you fucking read, or are women just stupid?” In that case, that guy is an asshole FOR NO REASON. That’s my point
Yeah don’t get me wrong, if a guy goes on there intentionally saying sexual/sexist shit, then sure be aggressive at him. But some guy who left a chill normal comment (probably without even realizing he was on GirlTalk)? Nah. Be kinder than that. If you want him gone just be like “hey btw this is GirlTalk, so men aren’t supposed to comment. Pls don’t going forward”. Look all I’m saying is just don’t be an asshole for no reason