General on Sidechat | i am a walking stereotype and i hate it. afab nonbinary, they/them, autistic, depression, anxiety, PTSD, stoner, history of SH and SI, undiagnosed physical illnesses, obsessed with insects and cartoons. like bffr am i the main character’s quirky friend?

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General 8w

i am a walking stereotype and i hate it. afab nonbinary, they/them, autistic, depression, anxiety, PTSD, stoner, history of SH and SI, undiagnosed physical illnesses, obsessed with insects and cartoons. like bffr am i the main character’s quirky friend?

Anonymous 8w

You seem cool ❤️

Anonymous 8w

I don’t tell people I am fluent in multiple languages unless they’re native in one of them 😁

Anonymous 8w

I've felt like this too and I blame myself for thinking too hard about labels/categories. All of those are just different permutations which make you you

Anonymous 8w

Me too but amab and OCD. I see you.

Anonymous 8w

Twin. Though I’m diagnosed with hEDS and lots of comorbidities. There’s a strong correlation between autism/adhd and hypermobility disorders like hEDS so definitely look into it

Anonymous 8w

tbf i don’t tell people all these things (expect for my love for insects and spiders) and i don’t post on social media. i rarely even tell people my pronouns unless I get closer to them. but i legit feel like whoever wrote me was just lazy😭 but like all these things are TRUE!!

Anonymous 8w

You seem cool tbh, but I also read PTSD as PHD at first and was confused how that was a stereotype with the other stuff

Anonymous 8w

before i answer that, are you bisexual?

Anonymous 8w

You the problem

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Anonymous

#2 8w

exactly. i try not to put myself in a box. i’m a fairly normal person actually. i think when people think nonbinary with mental health issues they think of 2020 tiktok and some kid named Arson with fake tourettes 😭

Anonymous

#1 8w

Im getting my bachelors in mathematics with december but i dont think ill go further than that cause i hate school lol

Anonymous

#6 8w

i don’t really label my sexuality. i have a fiancé and he’s all i care about. it’s funny cause he basically looks like your average straight man 😭

Anonymous

OP 8w

oh idk if that makes it better or worse 😭

Anonymous

#7 8w

with what? i swear im not one of those annoying ass woke people i barely even bring any of this stuff up😭

Anonymous

#8 7w

thanks for the advice. I’m waiting until I graduate and get a full time job to try and get diagnosed. I went to a bunch of doctors when i was 15 to try and figure it out but i just got sick of it. probably a bad idea that i’ve waited so long knowing something is wrong with me but i don’t have good health insurance now 🫩 I’ve heard about the connection between neurodivergency and chronic illnesses tho and i think it’s pretty interesting.

Anonymous

#6 7w

he wears a bass pro cap everyday, drive a red pick up truck, loves fishing 😭 we both look like two different stereotypes but on the inside we’re really similar. goofy sense of humor, caring, love nature