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General 10w
ppl villainize people with bpd so much like sorry for trying
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Anonymous 10w

It’s wrong to villainize anyone just cause they have BPD but as someone who has known 3 people with BPD I notice a pattern where they will “split” and expect you to move on after they hurl the most insane verbal abuse towards you. The constant hot and cold and walking on eggshells is draining, especially when 0 accountability is taken.

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Anonymous 10w

what

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

What abt this is difficult to understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

how are you trying

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

people can function just fine with BPD, that “pattern” isnt inherent to the disorder. which is part of the point of this post

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

By living

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Not saying they can’t! But there are certain behaviors that are a result of that disorder, leading to a pattern, and some people are entitled to protecting their peace.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

you’re allowed to protect your peace without claiming there’s a universal “pattern” of not claiming accountability 😭

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