Anonymous #2 1w

How did you meet up with them?

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Anonymous #3 1w

Unfortunately?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Uhh the last one it was interesting I’ve been trying to figure out what I did actually. It was Valentine’s Day and I was at an emo show having fun in the mosh pit and she was hopping in and out a little bit and was staring at me I noticed. I invited her in and we had fun. Afterwards, I gave her the last valentine I had been handing out all night, and she really liked that. After awhile of talking she called me cute so I called her cute back. She asked to go back to my place so we did

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Anonymous #2 1w

Hmmmm, I’m wondering did you two drink? I’m not a party person at all unfortunately and I really dislike alcohol. I feel like you need alcohol to have sex unless you’re religious, which I’m not

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Anonymous #2 1w

I was playing ps4 while she was chilling sleeping on me. Tbf she was also like 35 and eventually she said I was too young for her (unfortunately that always happens to me) and she said she’s gonna stop talking to me but it was nice while it lasted

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yea, I usually have a couple beers throughout the night but enough to legally drive home at the end.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Oh ok. Do you have any suggestions then for me, since I don’t drink?

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Anonymous OP 1w

But yeah I get that feeling also, I know a dude me and one of my girlfriends have been trying to report he believes the only way for a girl to like him is if he gets them extremely drunk which that’s just not right man. It takes a certain level of skill being sober though cause both sides anxiousness tend to be higher

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Anonymous #2 1w

Unfortunately he was worried at your age about sex just like you are. It works out. But the more you worry the harder it is.

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Anonymous OP 1w

You might like a Kava bar?

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Anonymous #2 1w

What’s that?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Just look it up, it’s a good third space for a lot of people and a good way to make friends also

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Anonymous #3 1w

Thought this wasOP replying lol, I’m old. But I agree with your sentiment of finding satisfaction through just sleeping with a girl not just the sex part, it’s very wholesome to me

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Anonymous #2 1w

Oh damn we don’t have any around here

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Anonymous OP 1w

Interesting, yeah I guess you could still find it somewhere you might just need to do some more searching

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Anonymous OP 1w

Or you can find non alcoholic bar spaces (rarer but possible) or become a regular at some places so you can meet girls who might be interested in you overtime

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