General on Sidechat | Can someone explain how to stand up for yourself properly. Because if I just fawn and do what people want I’m a “doormat,” but when I try and point out mistreatment I’m a “bitch with an attitude”. I’m tired of playing mental games. Just treat me fairly.

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General 4w

Can someone explain how to stand up for yourself properly. Because if I just fawn and do what people want I’m a “doormat,” but when I try and point out mistreatment I’m a “bitch with an attitude”. I’m tired of playing mental games. Just treat me fairly.

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Anonymous 4w

Just be a bitch with an attitude honestly. People who want to take advantage of you will HATE you being assertive but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it

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mother_russia 4w

I might have to at this point, I just feel bad because what if I AM the problem? Yet at the same time I see that I get treated differently and I’m so tired of it. Let me do my job and leave me alone.

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OP 4w

I can promise that you aren’t the problem. It always good to take a moment to double check yourself but if people are trying to walk all over you, don’t put up with it!!!

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mother_russia 4w

Thank you 😭 I might try and have them sit down so we can talk it over but Jfc I’m so close to walking out