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Im a girl who’s been very lucky enough to have avoided uncomfortable situations with men all my life, mainly cause i barely talk to them and havent been in any “dangerous” settings like a big city or party or smth yet still i have a couple stories. and
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Anonymous 4w

its really insane to think about. idk how i could have protected myself any more. i instinctually dress pretty modest and definetly give off a closed off vibe, yet ive been cat called, approached super fucking weirdly and sexually aggressive by randoms a couple times, groped by a random at a family carnival at the encouragement of his father, and a couple other situations i got myself out of purely because i had friends with me

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Anonymous 4w

Real shit. I’m similar to you. I’m quiet, rarely leave the house, dress in baggy clothes, and I still get old men talking to me about my ass while at work. Multiple times. In ways I cannot avoid, and that are so overtly sexual. It makes me so angry

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

20 years of strictly avoiding any potentially “dangerous” or “suggestive” social situation didn’t save me from anything

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