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I need every prepubescent child to start acting and dressing their age. I’ve been mistaken for a 16 yr old too many times now and I realized it’s bc every 16 yr old is dressing like a 22 yr old. Some mamas need to start yelling again about what you wear
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Anonymous 9w

Holy shit #1 is an opp fr

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Anonymous 9w

bruh how do you even know you’re being mistaken for a 16 year old because of what you dress like? and also 16 isn’t prepubescent.

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Anonymous 9w

Bro who hurt #1

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Anonymous 9w

My conspiracy is that it’s targeted thru social media, hundreds of tags on TikTok targeted to young minor girls to dress up “sexy” with comments full of thirsty old men grooming them via attention slowly making them do more and more revealing outfits and thirst traps posting to audios that go “I ain’t gonna snitch on daddy” or the bop or youngho trends. It’s way bigger than u think and I’ve caught younger cousins and snitched to their parents bc it’s not a fucking joke.

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Anonymous 9w

#1 definitely 16 😭

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Anonymous 9w

True statement. Ill upvote👍🏼

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Anonymous 9w

Maybe you naturally look like you’re on the younger end? Ik I still look like my 16 year old self face wise still 😞

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Anonymous 9w

Why do you care if somone thinks your 16 just politely correct them. I’m sure your family and others don’t notice

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Anonymous 9w

I get the frustration, and there are issues with beauty standards & how they affect children, but adults shouldn’t be scolding kids just for wearing a crop top. if people think you’re a minor when you’re not, that’s on them for the assumption

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Anonymous 9w

i still feel like there is a small gap between what 16 year olds and people in their early 20s wear, but now more clothing stores are closing that gap and having teenagers and adult clothing be basically the same thing due to trends. especially since there arent many teenage brands like justice used to be a good one when i was younger

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Anonymous 9w

girl, same. i guess i just have a baby face idk. people say i look 16 (or just younger than my age) when im literally 21. i feel like i haven’t changed face wise at all, but i definitely don’t dress the same and i style myself way more differently than when i was actually 16🥲

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Anonymous 9w

number 1s favorite word is dude 100%

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Anonymous 9w

How about we mind our own business about what people wear. In a few years you’ll be happy people mistake you for younger.

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Anonymous 9w

what if you’re just dressing like you’re 16, a lot of ppl wear clothes meant for kids

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Because the norm has become 14-16 yr olds with heavy make up and with clothes that are actively worn by older people (crop tops, short shorts, etc). When I was that age I got in trouble for even wanting to wear a crop top and was reminded to dress my age. The heavy make up is a big part of it too bc of eyelash extensions and foundation. Also I didn’t mean prepubescent in the literal term, im calling them babies bc they are still children

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

bro tf do you mean you didn’t use prepubescent in the literal term? it only has one meaning.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

and again how do you know the “norm” of people dressing like adults has led to you being mistaken for a 16 year old?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

My 15 yr old cousin looks older than I am, and it’s definitely not bc of her natural face. It’s bc of the amount of make up she wears, her eyelash extensions, she dresses casually in ways I would for a club as a 22 yr old woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Have you never called someone prepubescent simply based on how young they are? Idk why the term is making you so upset considering if they’re under the age of 18 I’M only going to think of them as prepubescent babies and nothing else bc they are literally just babies

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I don’t think you’re understanding that I’m saying that I (me personally) am not using it in the literal sense so if you wanna keep correcting me that’s fine and you can be right about the term. I’m simply saying that is what I think about children under 18, whether they’ve gone through puberty or not. Plus I think you’re forgetting about the late bloomers in the world so

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

I have corrected everyone with polite grace and divinity. I’m simply ranting about something on my mind

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

On a site that allows you to share your random thoughts

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

well you’re using it incorrectly considering prepubescent is SPECIFICALLY only referring to someone before puberty and I’ve never heard it used otherwise. You can’t use the term without specifying and expect people not to misunderstand you

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Anonymous 9w

bruh I understand how you want to use the term but you used it in your post without specifying you meant anyone under 18. Considering it generally refers to people that haven’t gone through puberty yet, it’s reasonable to expect that anyone coming across the post would see it that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

If I’ve explained how I’m using it in context and you still are misunderstanding it then I think we’ve simply come to the end of our conversation. Neither of us are going to get any further with this and I frankly don’t care enough to keep bickering with you. Have a great day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

also dude why do you care so much? just specify your age if someone mistakes you for being younger. It’s not a big deal

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Why do you care so much about how I feel about it? You don’t even know me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

idk dude judgmental people like you are annoying especially when you misuse the English language

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Then I suggest moving on from this post bc if you think this is judgemental then you’ve truly never seen it. Let’s both just move on with our days bc clearly you don’t like what I have to say, and I enjoy stating my opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

You sound full of yourself ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

People in the world can have differing opinions. That’s just life

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I get so many mixed reactions it weird. Some people tell me I look 16 and then other people tell me I look older than I am so honestly idek if it’s my face at this point 😭 I definitely don’t look the way I did when I was actually 16

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I think in general ppl have a different idea of what age is supposed to look like by default. Like as a society we’re conditioned to think women are ancient by the time they hit 30… whole time they look better than most 20 year something’s yk? 😀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I think we can use our context clues here and deduce what op meant without taking them so literally man!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

You’ve got such a good point. They really do have everyone thinking that you’re gonna look significantly older once they hit like 35

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

i’m ngl most of us were wearing that back when we were that age too

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

I get where you’re coming from. I definitely wouldn’t say I dress 16, but if it’s because I wear more tshirts/longer tops than crop tops then I still find that kinda weird tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> light_pink_new_moon_24 9w

That’s exactly what I was thinking too. Every store now has the same clothing for adults and children, just in smaller sizes. They really do need to bring back teenage specific brands

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Dude you’re insufferable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Yeah I guess so. I’ve reflected on this a bit and I definitely went too far. I’m sorry I freaked out in the comments. I really need to work on being less of an asshole online and to stop getting pressed over minor stuff. I shouldn’t have freaked out over just using a term and I shouldn’t have insulted you or been so nitpickey. I’m sorry I was an asshole.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

It’s alright dude. Sometimes people just disagree. I meant it when I said I hope you have a great day

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

People with low IQs struggle to understand things having different meanings given the context taking everything literally and using the definition to try to hold themselves to a smarter or more intelligent appearance but in reality you look like an idiot and a squid

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

There’s a mass grooming of young minor girls going on right under our noses through trends and algorithms and the end goal of whoever is manipulating this shit is to get them to the point where they start producing “content” as they get closer to 18 then pounce to do more once that starts.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

I found the secret TikTok of one of my classmates and while she was still 17 (or even 16 idk) she posted a regular vid of her dancing but her comments were full of thirsty men and one asked her to stick her tongue out for them and she did it and it got hella saves and affirmations while she was innocently not knowing that she was technically being farmed for content.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

They use manipulation tactics like escalation, anyways I’m going to sleep I’m done yapping abt this depressing shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

Just a warning to make sure y’all know what your siblings or nieces or cousins or friends are doing on social media and who they’re exposed to especially if their behavior or dressing patterns have changed. Modern society is a perverts paradise rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

dude has never heard of hyperbole

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

curious on why you're picking prepubescent specifically she also called them babies but you're not pulling out the definition for baby because you know she doesn't mean 14-16 year olds are actual babies just like they're not ACTUALLY prepubescent

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Its a hyperbole and a figure of speech and more importantly a joking way of calling them young. Shut the hell up 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Just say you’re stupid #1. I’ve never seen someone struggle this hard to understand a hyperbole 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> light_pink_new_moon_24 9w

justice was not a teen brand😭 that’s for kids

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 9w

i think it was like a preteen brand, more transitional. Girls nowadays have like little little kid clothes or adult clothes, no in between

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 9w

it was for preteens, but the fact that there was a brand for preteens/teens was good because now there are basically none

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

You too! And again I’m really sorry for what I said. I never should’ve gotten worked up over a non issue like this. I hope you’re doing all right and I hope you have a great day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

legit

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