Girl I’m sorry he’s a walking red flag, dump his ass right now

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It does.

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ik this isnt what you want to hear but if your values dont align to this extent, the way to protect your peace is probably by just letting him go. if he cant have a mature conversation about it and constantly minimizes what you say then resentment is going to build. you should be with someone who respects you as a person/sees you as an equal if you cant trust him to know that jan 6th was bad what CAN you trust him with

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Ah, yes… the left has done far, far worse! Like weekends, lunch breaks, workplace safety enforcement…. So terrible!

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I’d say talk with him about it and where he is coming from to understand why someone might have those opinions

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We were watching Euphoria and he called one of the characters a sl*t. It was something I had done before we started talking even. One of the characters wasn’t in a relationship with the guy so she started seeing someone else also. Unless you have the conversation about being exclusive i feel like you can still see other people as long as you are up front about it.

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His parents are recently separated after decades of marriage and it feels like he blames his mom for it. There is a sort of resentment there that I just cannot place. Something did happen months ago and it devastated me because felt like it validated some of the not so good things I assumed about myself. I came to the conclusion after that at one point or another the people in my life I have trusted have done harm emotionally or physically. It has never not happened. I thought this relationship-

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Would be different. I also have chronic health issues and it set off the worst bout I have had in a long time. Full on depressive episode but my body quite literally gave up on me. I had fainting or near daily ring episodes for a while because it was so bad

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He disagreed when I told him about how I felt. He was not in the same category. I was being dramatic and my life really was not that bad.

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He’s not wrong

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