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i unironically don’t think it’s possible to have a positive outlook on life without being born attractive
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Anonymous 1w

Here are the 5 main attractable qualities: - Looks/Features - Kindness - Wealth - Humour - Intelligence So if u ugly, u still got 4 other things going for u

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Anonymous 1w

there are so many fulfilling things other than attracting partners

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Anonymous 1w

the problem is you’re too focused on “being attractive” to even find joy in the other things. there’s plenty of people out there who are happy in life and don’t fit into the general beauty standard it’s all about the relationship you have with yourself not others

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

those tend to be a lot less meaningful without looks though (which would encourage a person to improve in those other 4 areas)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Look brotha, I’ve seen some relationships that seemed borderline impossible to even happen, so get good at the other 4 and I can almost guarantee there is someone out there who will want it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

But, if you’re hung up on looks the whole time, then how can u expect to care about the other 4 as much or even at all? U gotta get over it, and the rest will come gang

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

not as fulfilling as if you were to do them while being attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

it wasn’t necessarily about getting in a relationship tbh. i just feel like if feel more value if i got to be attractive like other people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

If u not getting value from one thing look to get it from another: Jeff Bezos ugly but wealthy = Valued, Gandhi ugly (sry) but kind = Valued, Pete Davidson ugly but funny = Valued, Einstein ugly but smart = Valued.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

well that’s the barrier because for literally anyone things could technically be “better”. you could say the same thing about being rich, or being healthy, or smart. just because things could be better doesn’t mean they can’t be great. even when things are fantastic they could technically be better

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