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having a high libido but being asexual at the same time is so confusing
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Anonymous 21h

how does this work

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

think of it like libido = you’re hungry. sexual attraction (to a specific person) would be craving a certain food while hungry. if you’re asexual, it’s like being hungry but nothing you have to eat sounds good

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

like how you can’t control being hungry, you can’t control having a libido. it’s a biological desire for sexual release, but that doesn’t mean i have to be attracted to anyone (which is all asexuality is) 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Oh okay yeah that’s neat, thanks for explaining it like that

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