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“after all i’ve done for you” like that’s an excuse to be a dumbass and a jackass

Anonymous 3w

My ex would say this and I'd just be like wtf are you even talking about?? Tf have you done for me besides ruin my brain and rob me of my peace and joy?? 😭

Anonymous 3w

This phrase immediately sends me into fight or flight. Its why i hate being gifted things or being “treated” to nice things, in my experience its just an excuse to treat you like shit later on

Anonymous 3w

I’m always conflicted by that statement because sometimes it’s valid and other times not so much, but if they’ve done so much, then wouldn’t they be more familiar with what upsets you?

Anonymous 3w

It’s not but asses they manipulate

Anonymous

#1 3w

example: me getting yelled at for getting the job done, but not doing it their EXACT way (it would make their life harder) and it producing the same result (my way made it less time and labor consuming

Anonymous

OP 3w

Maybe you compromised one of their values

Anonymous

#1 3w

it was shoveling snow.

Anonymous

OP 3w

Lmfao

Anonymous

#3 3w

the same ppl that say this r the ones that got us into shitty situations

Anonymous

#4 3w

the only time i ever use it personally is when someone acts like i do nothing for them and j become ungrateful. do i expect anything in return? no. but i will bring receipts of me actions if u finna act like i do nothing