General on Sidechat | Avoidants, whenever you’re dealing with something, internally or externally, do you become distant with your partner even though it has nothing to do with them?

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General 5w

Avoidants, whenever you’re dealing with something, internally or externally, do you become distant with your partner even though it has nothing to do with them?

Anonymous 5w

Yes- often not intentionally. I also tend to under communicate in those times, as I often think it won't benefit the situation and that it's just something I need to work through.

Anonymous 5w

It will cause problems

Anonymous 5w

yes

Anonymous 5w

Yeah and it sucks

Anonymous 5w

absolutely. i almost lost my bf because of my self doubt and grief.

Anonymous

#1 5w

I don’t do it personally, but I’m asking those who are avoidant do so

Anonymous

#3 5w

May I ask why or how come?

Anonymous

#4 5w

May I ask why? I’m wanting to understand it more from an Avoidant’s perspective

Anonymous

OP 5w

Yknow the feeling you get right before you jump off something tall or get into a cold pool? Imagine that feeling every time you think about interacting with someone. Its weird and definitely unhealthy (im seeing a therapist for it), but its entirely my problem and has nothing to do with the other person.