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I’m a straight guy, and most of my friends are women. And yet, I have a really hard time finding prospective partners. I’m starting to think it’s because I initially treat all women as friends- even the ones I’m attracted to.
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Anonymous 4d

Like, I don’t know how to “switch” from friendship mode to romantic mode. For a long while I told myself, “you just have to wait for the right one.” But I’m so terrified of rejection, that the minute I hit that switch, they’ll think I’m a creep/only hung out with them because I was “pursuing them.” Does any of this make sense?

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Anonymous 3d

Have you tried asking your female friends to set you up?

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Anonymous 3d

Try being more aggressive.

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