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Hey guys, some advice. You’d have better chances meeting girls if you stopped being big babies and approached them when out at bars or clubs, rather than sitting there staring. Shoot your shot.
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Anonymous 4w

Say it louder for the folks in the back 🗣️🗣️

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Anonymous 4w

L take. Leave them alone before u get labeled a pervert

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Anonymous 4w

Well…duh

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Anonymous 4w

I’m scared 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

You realize that whole perspective is something men have created in their own heads and that most girls will just be like oh I got approached by a guy. It is what it is.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

yea like as long as you don’t come across like you’re expecting something, we’re not gonna think you’re a pervert or a creep. worst it’ll be is a little awkward but if you respect us as people then its genuinely fine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Actually, a lot of men have had real experiences of being called creepy, threatening, harassing, or worse just for trying to respectfully approach a woman. Thats not something they invented - its genuinely happened enough that many guys now avoid approaching women altogether out of fear of having a negative interaction. And how does that happen? Women have created a climate where men feel like any attempt of showing interest is risky. To further corroborate my point go on any social media app

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

And look at the huge number of women posting videos saying they go out in public and men don’t approach or interact with them. Let’s not even talk about how you guys crucify them behind their backs and in group chats and whatnot. Considering the inherent bias in your statement/ assertion I can see the general trend of this conversation therefore, I'll end my piece here. Blessing

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I understand that you exist within your own reality and not American society as a whole so I sympathize with your imagery👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

You’re basing your reality off of fucking Tik Toks and Tweets. That’s not real life.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I'm not basing MY reality off of social media alone. My argument, however, drew a parallel using just one element. In reality, you are creating a false dichotomy that people expressing themselves online doesn't equate to how they feel offline; which is a bit moronic. I have more to say, but as I said earlier, ik where this is going to go.

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