Anonymous #1 8w

And yes I have a gf

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Anonymous #1 8w

Evil

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Anonymous OP 8w

Ya I’m not proud of myself but what am I supposed to do? Never date again because I’m still in love with someone from 5 years ago ?

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Anonymous #1 8w

Well…yes in a way. You’re supposed to find a way to move on that doesn’t involve harming someone else. Like idk going to therapy. And then date after you’re moved on. You’re only hurting your current girlfriend by dating her while you’re still in love with someone else. Even if she doesn’t know, she’ll eventually find out because you can’t keep that front up forever. Very selfish of you to allow someone else to fall in love with you when you’re still stuck on your past.

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Anonymous OP 8w

Okay but I have been to therapy. Just because I have spoken with a therapist doesn’t mean my feelings for a person have gone away

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Anonymous #1 8w

My point still stands. You shouldn’t be dating if you’re not over your ex. Again, incredibly selfish to put someone else’s feelings on the line to benefit yourself when you know you’ll never love her like you love you ex, and if your ex came back to you you’d leave your current girlfriend in a heartbeat.

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Anonymous #1 8w

May this love never find holy

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Anonymous #2 8w

your line was “so will plenty of women,” not “lesbians”

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Anonymous #5 8w

i can only speak for the women ive been in relationships with

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Anonymous #4 8w

To not date until you’ve moved on…

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Anonymous #2 8w

I respect that actually - another lesbian who recently had this happen to them

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Anonymous OP 8w

Yeah, moving on isn’t fully having that grief exit your body. It’s simply being comfortable knowing that you won’t be with that person again. Just like grief of say a family member or friend, you will miss that relationship from time to time.

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