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Sorority Life 9w
didn’t get a bid im so sad. i felt like i got along well with sm of the girls i talked to, did they not like me? i love the philanthropies and would love to do that kind of thing while being surrounded by girls i love and who are my sisters.
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Anonymous 9w

I would say cob !!! most of the time girls are cut bc there are so many people and they have to base it on little things such as gpa. I’ve heard of plenty of girls who didn’t get a bid during formal but got their number one house during cob

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Anonymous 9w

i also didn’t get a bid! if you really want one there’s always COB, or you can find a community outside of greek life :)

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Anonymous 8w

thing happened to me even though I was so sure I was gonna get a specific house back because the girls told me how much they loved me just for me to get dropped on bid day. i’m so sad and i feel so bad about my self but everyone says it’s not me hopefully I get into a house I like it soon cuz i cob

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Anonymous 9w

Do u want a confidence boost

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

sure

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

this happened to me! i got dropped by every house but got into my top choice the next spring! use this time to focus on yourself and your classes

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

omg guys thank you all so much for being nice, i posted the same thing on reddit and everyone was attacking me😭❤️❤️❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

yesss for sure i’m going to try COB and i’m going to the involvement fair!!❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

yay this makes me so hopeful!! i think my school does COB in both the fall and the spring so hopefully i can get into a house in either one ❤️❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

the same thing happened to me but hopefully we will have a good COB experience!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

happy I’m not alone in this, but it’s really unfair and upsetting

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