Sorority Life on Sidechat | i feel left out in my sorority at times. me and my big don’t talk ever and i always see other people hanging out with there big. but i also feel like she isn’t as active in the community as other people which doesn’t help.

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Sorority Life 8w

i feel left out in my sorority at times. me and my big don’t talk ever and i always see other people hanging out with there big. but i also feel like she isn’t as active in the community as other people which doesn’t help.

Anonymous 8w

continuing- i did cob instead of rush so it was harder to get to know more of the girls. i also am a commuter student who lives 25-30 mins away.

Anonymous 8w

Try to go to more events. Get to know a few people. Everyone has a different relationship with their big, it is not just you who doesn’t feel as connected

Anonymous 1w

It’s ok, my big was like this and ended up screwing me and my twin over majorly. We’re getting adopted soon. Just keep going to events and talking to people. Eventually you’ll find a sister who you vibe with. Trust, your real bff in the sorority isn’t always your big.

Anonymous

OP 8w

Welp I think you just diagnosed your own problem just do more stuff with people in your sorority

Anonymous

#3 1w

I was also a COB and am a 25-30 minute commuter

Anonymous

#3 1w

thank you so much! i tried to ask if she wanted to hangout and she never responded. i understand she’s being but why become a big if your not going to be a big. i’m hoping with rush coming up i am able to find more people i connect with!

Anonymous

OP 1w

i understand she’s busy***

Anonymous

OP 1w

Rush will definitely help. It’s a stressful time, but I’m positive it’ll get better for you!