Honestly give it some time! Wait a year, try to be as involved as you can, and then decide. I’m sure there’s so many girls that feel just like you

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give it at least a semester if not more. i felt the same way and now i literally am on exec board and love it so much

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If you don’t like it, leave! There is absolutely nobody that will force you to do anything you don’t want to do. That being said, my advice is to give it the semester at the very least. It can be a great way to meet some amazing people and it also provides great experiences and opportunities.If you can try to ride it out, I would and I would go to only the events that you feel like you want to go to as you will not have a good time if you force yourself to go. I truly hope you end up loving it:)

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i chose to stay when i was in that situation last year and i'm honestly so sad i did because i still don't like it and now i can never join another sorority where i might fit better. i'm currently in the process of disaffiliating completely. drop while you can

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