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i made it to the last of 4 rounds of cob but then got an email that I didn’t get offered a bid, I’m devastated. was I too ugly? not social enough? annoying to talk to? I would have loved being a sister and I’m just crushed
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Anonymous 3w

I’m a sophomore, & during freshman year I realized that greek life was a huge component of our social life & decided to rush. I couldn’t attend formal rush as I was in France & they changed the times to be the wkd before uni started, but I really truly would have done everything with my whole heart & would have been such an active member. I’m so sad and I feel like I missed my one last chance

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Anonymous 2w

girl!! pls go through formal if you are able to this year!! i went through as a cob my sophomore year and got a bid BUT i know girls who went through cob and didn’t get a bid. they then went through formal and found their home!! for cob they only have a certain number of spots and it’s going to be fewer than how many they can take in formal! my chapter even gave a bid to an upcoming senior in formal! it’s never too late! i promise!🫶🏼

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Anonymous 2w

so many girls we adored during cob didn’t get bids from us just cause my chapter had a huge list of girls who did cob and a huge list of girls we wanted really bad, but after formal in the fall, we rly didn’t have room for more than like 7 or 8 people (usually our spring cob brings in like 15-20 ppl) so i wld say def do formal this fall if u can

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