
No, I mean girls will choose to rush or rank a sorority based on looks. So it’s not wrong for the sorority to also choose and hand out bids based on looks, because the better a sorority looks the more attractive it is for new members and the more they want to be part of something like that. It’s not taking into consideration men’s opinions. It’s taking into consideration what potential new members find appealing.
Ah I see. You mean from a PNM perspective? Personally I just wanted to go to the most friendly and accepting place(s), and diversity (whether racial, ethnic, body type, etc.) was an added plus. Ik a girl who said throughout recruitment she thought to herself “would I be comfortable if I was in a bikini rn around all these girls” to judge if she felt comfortable and like she belonged.