Anonymous #2 1w

Not exactly posting about it here to get pats in the back

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Anonymous alphanerd 1w

okay? put your whining somewhere where it actually belongs. better yet, stop bitching about your girlfriend and child, deadbeat

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Anonymous alphanerd 1w

But yeah fr she wasn’t a felon when I started supporting her and she didn’t have the kid either. It lit is, at least started that way, I just wanted to see my friend doing better. But I have to get out, and she won’t take no. So I’m doing it in the scummiest way I can think of: who wants to take her place?

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Anonymous alphanerd 1w

“she won’t take no”? oh my god, grow a spine and just break up with her, you’re the one doing the financial supporting so it’s not as if she’s capable of trapping you. you don’t have to announce that you’re being scummy though, that much is obvious, o Alpha of Nerds

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Anonymous alphanerd 1w

looking at your posts, how are you out here LARPing as a leftist while also using someone’s criminalized status to belittle her? someone who loves you no less? get your shit together little bro, that’s disgraceful

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Anonymous #2 1w

I’m a leftist because I have attacked the police like four times, Not because I’m a feminist. Someone being your ally, politically or socially, does not make them a good person. I mean, the practical answer is to wise because this is a Safeway of blowing off steam about an unpleasant situation. That’s not gonna get any better.

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Anonymous #2 1w

I don’t do well with people begging me. My life is devoted towards siphoning off as much money as possible from what I need to survive in order to give it away. In the context of literally dozens of people begging me for money every week. I picked one, closest, who I cared about, to try and help. There might’ve been a way to do that that wasn’t abusive, but I didn’t do that. Now, I can’t go back without blocking her, and that’s foul. Every part of it is foul. You are exactly correct 👍

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Anonymous alphanerd 1w

no shit you’re not a feminist lmao! sure you can attack cops, but then you go on to use “felon” like a dirty word? do you seriously not understand how clearly that conveys a lack of consistent principles re: the prison industrial complex? you’re too busy being a misogynist to even properly be an ally to the incarcerated

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Anonymous alphanerd 1w

again, this isn’t a community for bitching about girlfriends, put that shit somewhere else. vent to a friend, get a journal or something. the way you publicly talk about this woman is despicable. if the situation isn’t gonna improve, man the fuck up and formally break up with her rather than whining online

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Anonymous alphanerd 1w

great, so for the entire course of your relationship you’ve just been viewing her as a charity case, and now you’re talking about that fact as if it makes you some kind of humanitarian. you’re veering into incoherency with your sob story, I’ve seen more than enough

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Anonymous #2 1w

No, it’s not. In the same way that being politically aligned with you does not make me a good person. Doing things you disagree with doesn’t make me a bad person. This is very straightforward. I am using dictation software and not editing everything I say to you, and I am experiencing resentment for someone that I have been caring for. This is a normal part. Yeah, I can end it with blocking, but the larger issue is that the random online spaces where other people can see *is* the right place

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Anonymous alphanerd 1w

I’ve been pointing out a slew of things you’re doing wrong that reflect very very poorly on you, but I never called you a “bad person”, so idk what you’re yapping about. the way you voice that resentment is something you have control over, and you choose to make an ass of yourself in the process

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Anonymous alphanerd 1w

no, the right place is a therapist’s office or a friend’s ear, not a community created for alternative women to share their selfies. this is ridiculous—even if you’re gonna vent online, at least do it in the right community. and if you have any political integrity whatsoever, you need to leave her criminal charges out of it

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Anonymous alphanerd 1w

crazy to self-describe as “alpha” while you’re too much of a coward to properly end a relationship, btw

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