Anonymous #4 12h

Idk my dad has a friend who married a man over 30 years older than her and out of the whole family shes the only one who hasn’t gotten a divorce despite everyone’s disapproval of it. It wasn’t even about money, they really do just love each other

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Anonymous #5 12h

How old was she out of curiosity

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Anonymous #4 12h

Not even sure but shes been with him for a long time now so probably 20s to maybe early 30s at most

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Anonymous #5 12h

I feel like early 30s MIGHT be fine, I still think it is weird and probably predatory (subconsciously or not) on his behalf but whatever, if they are happy and safe then that is good. Not everything is black and white which I must remember when talking about this, but whenever I see an age gap like that I will ALWAYS raise my eyebrow unfortunately

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Anonymous #4 12h

And thats fine but telling someone to leave him just because of the age gap without knowing the person or the situation unfortunately is not especially given that she said she loves him

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Anonymous #5 12h

I fear a 41 year old dating a 19 year old is almost never safe, I could care less if she loves him because I feel this situation is unsafe. You are right, I do not know her or the relationship, but I feel the questions I presented and the worries I have are very valid despite that

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Anonymous #4 11h

You sound, rewind are just an oblivious lonely child yourself. The type to try telling people what’s right and what’s wrong in your sad sheltered naive life. Maybe stay in the safety of your parents basement forever. Bless your little heart ❤️

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Anonymous #3 11h

You are simply delusional and naive yourself if you think a 41 year old dating a 19 year old is normal. Sure it might be naive to think so black and white though so I will take that criticism on the chin

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Anonymous #4 11h

You attempting to project speaks volumes. So tell us, who hurt you? This is mildly entertaining in an extremely depressing way. Continue.

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Anonymous #3 11h

I saw your original comment, bro thinks he’s slick!!!!!!! You are the exact type of person I dislike when talking about age gaps, you think it is no big deal but I feel you are just in denial for whatever reason, maybe because you have been the older person in a similar dynamic, that is just an assumption though! Either way we will never agree on this topic and that is okay

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Anonymous #4 10h

Why are you writing novels showing us all how furious you truly are? Are you okay? Obviously not. Tell us you’re an incel without telling us a bit more. Continue entertaining us. Proceed, ‘bro’

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Anonymous #3 10h

wat dat mean

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