Right? I love that spooning and pillow talk. Tell me in whispery tones about your childhood dreams, who you were in high school, tell me about your hopes, your fears, your regrets, let's talk about life, the universe, whatever, or say nothing at all and simply enjoy the the warmth, comfort, acceptance, and validation of it. Because life is cold and tiring and it just feels nice to have a refuge from that and feel.. comforted if not loved.