Some dicks are just not meant for the back door. Just cause you’ve watched a porn star do it doesn’t mean normal people can or want to

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Take it slow and stretch it one small bit at a time it takes time for your muscles to relax than it gets easier using the right lube helps too

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Preparation and practice is the bed advice I can give you. Lubricant is so important and making sure it’s reapplied. The ass doesn’t naturally lubricant itself. Just start off with some trainer buttplugs and gradually work your way up from there with a lot of lube. Then move to dildos and other larger toys while stimulating your pussy (that part is really important). You want to train not only your ass but your mind to associate it with pleasure

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